Transpersonal Psychology Mix.

When the Mind Understands, but the Body Resists.

Self-esteem is one of the most misunderstood concepts in psychology. It’s often confused with confidence, charisma, or a loud sense of self. In reality, self-esteem has very little to do with how you appear — and almost everything to do with how you relate to yourself when no one is watching. True self-esteem is not “I believe in myself.” It is “I don’t abandon myself.” Most people don’t lose self-esteem because they fail. They lose it because, over time, they learn that thei

The topic of betrayal is taboo in our society. We all know that being a betrayer is considered wrong, and we block even the thought of it from our inner dialogue with ourselves. No one ever voluntarily agrees to be seen as a betrayer in someone else’s eyes—everyone always finds justifications for their actions and choices. This is perfectly understandable from the standpoint of the human Ego. Most often, betrayal is understood as disloyalty to someone or the failure to fulfil

There is a rare kind of person who exists entirely on their own terms. Their calm, steady gaze seems to slip beneath the surface of things. They stand out in a crowd, quietly drawing attention, yet they never seek it. They do not rush to be friendly with everyone, do not scatter their openness carelessly. They are used to distance—and if someone dares to intrude into their personal space without invitation, a single polite smile is enough to restore the boundary. A smile so g

When we speak about male sexuality , we must first admit an uncomfortable but honest truth: it has two very different natures . The first is constitutional . Here , nature itself programs the man — with an increased production of testosterone, with drive, with impulse, with a bodily need for action. In this version, he often doesn’t act because he wants to , but because he must . Biology pushes him forward like a motor that never fully turns off. The second is psychogenic . H

Brain Chemistry : What Your Mood Depends On. Emotions appeared in the course of evolution not so that you would be happy all the time, but to motivate you to take actions that support survival. Positive emotions - motivate you to take steps to meet your needs. DOPAMINE. Creates a feeling of pleasant excitement when you find a new way to satisfy a need. When your brain releases dopamine, it signals that a reward is near. This wonderful feeling motivates you to make an effort t

(and even GAINS energy) Because the feminine energetic design is based on attraction , not on action. A woman receives energy when : – attention is directed toward her– admiration is invested in her– the energy of expectation is invested in her– she is desired– she is admired– she is pursued She functions like a receiver and catcher of energy . For her, this is a natural inflow , not a loss. That is why an “army of admirers” for a woman is like a solar panel on a sunny day .

Sometimes the soul finds itself at the threshold of a trial that feels like a gust of cold wind striking a heated heart. Betrayal is a word that already sounds like a tear in the fabric of fate. Yet if you look deeper, it is not a rupture at all - it is a transition. In the esoteric tradition, it is believed that when a person leaves your life through lies, manipulation, or rejection, they perform the role of a guide from one level of reality to another. The soul does not fa

How Social Media Algorithms Shape Your Subconscious: The Digital Prison You Pay for Yourself. Have you ever noticed how, after an hour on social media, your mood changes for no obvious reason? As if someone quietly adjusted the invisible controls of your psyche — and now you’re looking at the world through someone else’s eyes. The Invisible Hand Pulling Your Neural Strings. Every action you take online — a like, a scroll, a pause on a video — is a tiny brick. From these brick

Our mind is a great trickster, and it enjoys playing with us, testing whether we will fall for its tricks or not. Its task is to completely become us — and to make us believe that it is us. Check this list and notice how often you are deceived by your own mind. 💎 “I would be happier if I had to work less.” Our mind often uses this argument, claiming that we would be happier if we didn’t have to work. We imagine a life full of entertainment and pleasures and deceive ourselves

Here is a retelling of a conversation with a shaman . He spoke about a technique for retrieving lost Energy. I will write in his voice — it is easier for me this way — but this is by no means a direct quotation . You reach toward people because you lack Energy. In truth, you do not need their  Energy. In them, you are searching for your own  Energy — but you are looking in the wrong place. You need your own Energy, which can be found in the warehouse of the past . We leave en

The world of the soul always opens itself to those who are ready to hear the quiet call of Truth. When a person approaches the depths of Creation, hidden paths unfold before them, where the light of the commandment becomes a guiding thread. Here begins a journey in which every step becomes a sign, and every thought — a key. “And the first stage of the revelation of the Countenance… comes to a person only through His deliverance… and becomes like an ever-strengthening source.”

Inspired by Galina Safonova’s publication. A psychologist View on Female Psycho endocrinology I am often asked :“Why are some women carried in men’s arms, while others receive only coldness, infidelity, or loneliness throughout their lives? What is wrong with them? Is it a curse, karma, or psychology ?” I answer honestly: it is all of it at once. I am a woman, a magician, and a psychotherapist. And I always see the world through two lenses:the clinical one  — trauma, the nerv

Sophia, Lilith, Naberius, and Hecate do not inhabit the same mythic world, yet they occupy the same inner architecture of human experience. They are not characters in a shared story, but principles that collide within the structure of consciousness itself . Knowledge, freedom, language, and threshold—truth, refusal, persuasion, and transition—form a fourfold tension that outlines the deepest drama of human becoming. Sophia emerges in philosophy as the pull of the soul toward

While Sophia, Lilith, and Naberius describe strategies of cognition, rupture, and narrative control within relational fields , Hecate  represents something structurally different: the psychology of thresholds . In mythic terms, Hecate governs crossroads, liminal spaces, gates, and transitions. In clinical terms, she corresponds to boundary regulation under conditions of trauma, ambivalence, and unresolved separation . Hecate does not organize power through knowledge (Sophia),

Relational pathology rarely emerges from overt hostility alone. More frequently, it develops from incompatible attachment-based regulatory strategies that crystallize into stable systems of power . The structural figures of Sophia , Lilith , and Naberius  can be read not as mythological motifs but as symbolic models of three distinct modes of affect regulation, self-protection, and interpersonal control : through cognition, through rupture, and through narrative mediation. So

In the deepest strata of symbolic thought, Sophia, Lilith, and Naberius do not belong to the same mythological order. They emerge from different traditions, different cosmologies, even different metaphysical anxieties. And yet, when read through a philosophical and psychological lens, they form a coherent triad : knowledge, freedom, and language  — the three forces through which human consciousness fractures, defends itself, and attempts to rule both itself and others. Sophia

From a clinical perspective, the Sophia–Lilith dynamic does not describe inherent personality “types,” but rather defensive relational strategies shaped by early attachment patterns and trauma histories. Sophia reflects a defensive organization built around cognitive control, emotional inhibition, and hyper -mentalization. Lilith reflects a defensive organization structured around affective intensity, deactivation through rupture, and resistance to dependency. Both strategies

In toxic relational systems, the dynamics of Sophia and Lilith rarely appear in their pure forms. Instead, they become strategies of survival and power within environments shaped by insecurity, competition, and unmet attachment needs. What in healthy contact might be insight and freedom, here hardens into manipulation and flight. Sophia in a toxic dynamic often becomes the silent regulator of meaning. She does not overtly dominate, yet she subtly controls the narrative. Throu

In the psychology of relationships, most conflicts do not unfold on the level of emotions, but on the level of power. Not the obvious, overt power of domination, but the quiet, hidden kind - embedded in silence, withdrawal, provocation, control over distance, and control over meaning. The archetypes of Sophia and Lilith describe two radically different strategies of operating within this invisible field. Sophia represents cognitive power. Her strength lies not in dominance, b